Every Parent Who Gives Their Kid an iPhone Should Make Their Kid Follow These 18

[Krandall]

Just found this article.. Saved it for the future.. Its legit and SOLID advice I thought worth sharing.

From a mom to her 13 year old son whom just received an iphone for Christmas. These are the ground rules layed out.

1. It is my phone. I bought it. I pay for it. I am loaning it to you. Aren't I the greatest?
2. I will always know the password.
3. If it rings, answer it. It is a phone. Say hello, use your manners. Do not ever ignore a phone call if the screen reads "Mom" or "Dad". Not ever.
4. Hand the phone to one of your parents promptly at 7:30pm every school night & every weekend night at 9:00pm. It will be shut off for the night and turned on again at 7:30am. If you would not make a call to someone's land line, wherein their parents may answer first, then do not call or text. Listen to those instincts and respect other families like we would like to be respected.
5. It does not go to school with you. Have a conversation with the people you text in person. It's a life skill. *Half days, field trips and after school activities will require special consideration.
6. If it falls into the toilet, smashes on the ground, or vanishes into thin air, you are responsible for the replacement costs or repairs. Mow a lawn, babysit, stash some birthday money. It will happen, you should be prepared.
7. Do not use this technology to lie, fool, or deceive another human being. Do not involve yourself in conversations that are hurtful to others. Be a good friend first or stay the hell out of the crossfire.
8. Do not text, email, or say anything through this device you would not say in person.
9. Do not text, email, or say anything to someone that you would not say out loud with their parents in the room. Censor yourself.
10. No porn. Search the web for information you would openly share with me. If you have a question about anything, ask a person ? preferably me or your father.
11. Turn it off, silence it, put it away in public. Especially in a restaurant, at the movies, or while speaking with another human being. You are not a rude person; do not allow the iPhone to change that.
12. Do not send or receive pictures of your private parts or anyone else's private parts. Don't laugh. Someday you will be tempted to do this despite your high intelligence. It is risky and could ruin your teenage/college/adult life. It is always a bad idea. Cyberspace is vast and more powerful than you. And it is hard to make anything of this magnitude disappear — including a bad reputation.
13. Don't take a zillion pictures and videos. There is no need to document everything. Live your experiences. They will be stored in your memory for eternity.
14. Leave your phone home sometimes and feel safe and secure in that decision. It is not alive or an extension of you. Learn to live without it. Be bigger and more powerful than FOMO — fear of missing out.
15. Download music that is new or classic or different than the millions of your peers that listen to the same exact stuff. Your generation has access to music like never before in history. Take advantage of that gift. Expand your horizons.
16. Play a game with words or puzzles or brain teasers every now and then.
17. Keep your eyes up. See the world happening around you. Stare out a window. Listen to the birds. Take a walk. Talk to a stranger. Wonder without googling.
18. You will mess up. I will take away your phone. We will sit down and talk about it. We will start over again. You & I, we are always learning. I am on your team. We are in this together.

[Peelz]

 

I like it. 

[Out Back Welding]

Awesome 

Going through this atm.. I have an 11 yr old. Almost 12. Gave him an unactivated iPhone for Christmas..if he can take care of that...follow the rules.. I'll activate it..and go from there.

[preddy08]

These are great pointers for EVERYONE to follow!

If you have to txt a person more than 3 times back to back, JUST CALL THEM!!!

I cant stand how people are glued to their phones. It drives me nuts. Have some people over for drinks and dinner and they sit on their phone looking at FB

[Hefe]

I'm with ya man

[Peelz]

Im only glued to mah phone when some of you bastidz blow it up with p0rnz and anti semite jokes

[Krandall]

anti semite jokes

those heartless bastards.

[Peelz]

since the boy has mommas old iphone, ill have to print those out and remind him... although I regularly do anyways.

the only thing we dont follow....he blows people up with funny texts...


that's my boy. 

[Krandall]

Id on't get any funny texts. only dirty pictures in draw somethin. WTF

[Peelz]

Id on't get any funny texts. only dirty pictures in draw somethin. WTF

[Colorado700R]

Im only glued to mah phone when some of you bastidz blow it up with p0rnz and anti semite jokes

I have no recollection of those events senator...

[Peelz]

Im only glued to mah phone when some of you bastidz blow it up with p0rnz and anti semite jokes

I have no recollection of those events senator...

what events?

[Krandall]

Im only glued to mah phone when some of you bastidz blow it up with p0rnz and anti semite jokes

I have no recollection of those events senator...

what events?

[Peelz]

seriously, I love it when those texts start flyin....

be sittin eating dinner with my wife and kids... phone beeps 6-7 times...

wife "who is blowin up your phone?....oh let me guess...its hitler jokes"

[Krandall]

seriously, I love it when those texts start flyin....

be sittin eating dinner with my wife and kids... phone beeps 6-7 times...

wife "who is blowin up your phone?....oh let me guess...its hitler jokes"